Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GF off the pill

Fireballs

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She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BrainDamage92

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Taking a medicine for a long time means the condition is treatable but not curable. I know that docs like to stop even heavy clinical cases from the pill just to see whats up.
 

Desdinova

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Different brands of pills affect women different ways. My ex-fiancee bounced across different brands of birth control and each one affected her moods differently. One was so bad I demanded that she change back to a previous one.
 

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Fireballs said:
She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?

Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?



YawataNoKami said:
It's a trap. Run.
He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Peña said:
Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?





He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
I have only seen her moody when she tried a different brand of pill which I made her change back. She has put on a small amount of weight but is working hard in the gym and eating right and no issues with hair loss.

She got the Merina put in last night and I'm away for a week before I see her so she's stopped the pill so will be interesting to see her moods while I'm away and when I get back.
 

gravityeyelids

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my ex was much happier and hornier when she was not on contraception. She started using the Nuvaring and it totally fvcked up her moods. She was always moody, sad, and had no sex drive. It was basically killing our relationship. She switched to the pill and it was a massive improvement although her mood and sex drive was definitely not where it was before...but sadly contraception is a necessary evil if you're having sex all the time
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A girl going off the pill is definitely more likely to cheat. However if you are a masculine male chances are she will actually be more attracted to you than previously. Studies show women on birth control are less attracted to masculine men
 
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