"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GF off the pill

Fireballs

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She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taking a medicine for a long time means the condition is treatable but not curable. I know that docs like to stop even heavy clinical cases from the pill just to see whats up.
 

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Different brands of pills affect women different ways. My ex-fiancee bounced across different brands of birth control and each one affected her moods differently. One was so bad I demanded that she change back to a previous one.
 

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Fireballs said:
She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?

Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?



YawataNoKami said:
It's a trap. Run.
He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Peña said:
Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?





He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
I have only seen her moody when she tried a different brand of pill which I made her change back. She has put on a small amount of weight but is working hard in the gym and eating right and no issues with hair loss.

She got the Merina put in last night and I'm away for a week before I see her so she's stopped the pill so will be interesting to see her moods while I'm away and when I get back.
 

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my ex was much happier and hornier when she was not on contraception. She started using the Nuvaring and it totally fvcked up her moods. She was always moody, sad, and had no sex drive. It was basically killing our relationship. She switched to the pill and it was a massive improvement although her mood and sex drive was definitely not where it was before...but sadly contraception is a necessary evil if you're having sex all the time
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A girl going off the pill is definitely more likely to cheat. However if you are a masculine male chances are she will actually be more attracted to you than previously. Studies show women on birth control are less attracted to masculine men
 
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