"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
GF of 9 months spent £200 for my bday, now its hers need ideas please
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
If you're serious and want to let her know, earrings would be acceptable, although might be a bit scant at 200.
A leather jacket would be about in the price range. Something hot/cute/soft would work.
Do you spend time at her place? How's her sound system? Any augmentation required (that she would understand)?
Or perhaps a few things...
Lingerie, other items that she's ... missing.
Have you been snapping pictures over the last nine months of your experiences? Get printouts from a photo place and stick them in a photo album with hand written crap (you'll get two thumbs up for this effort and it's cheap).
Fancy dinner that you'd not typically go to.
Road trip?
Hard to say, don't know this woman, but perhaps this might get you thinking.
SH
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Get a box. Cut a hole in the box. Put your junk in the box, make her open the box.
If you want a serious gf, get her something serious. If you want a fun gf, get her something fun. If she's just a fuuck toy, get her something sexual.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thinking this not a good idea, as it would mean more to her if i chose it, but obviously i don't want her to say yeah she likes it, when she don't.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Sounds a crazy business to me,the giving of extravagant presents,is so easy to start,and can easily spiral out of control....
Seems like you are indulging in A "paleface" Potlatch...An Annual ceremony where Red Indian Tribes of your N.W. would indulge in an esteem building contest,involving the destruction of highly valued personal possessions....For the love of Mike,don't give the profligate carte blanche in a Jewelry shop,what if she wants a ring?