Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Suggestions then?Scaramouche said:Dear Played,
Sounds a crazy business to me,the giving of extravagant presents,is so easy to start,and can easily spiral out of control....
Seems like you are indulging in A "paleface" Potlatch...An Annual ceremony where Red Indian Tribes of your N.W. would indulge in an esteem building contest,involving the destruction of highly valued personal possessions....For the love of Mike,don't give the profligate carte blanche in a Jewelry shop,what if she wants a ring?