"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GF of 9 months spent £200 for my bday, now its hers need ideas please
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
If you're serious and want to let her know, earrings would be acceptable, although might be a bit scant at 200.
A leather jacket would be about in the price range. Something hot/cute/soft would work.
Do you spend time at her place? How's her sound system? Any augmentation required (that she would understand)?
Or perhaps a few things...
Lingerie, other items that she's ... missing.
Have you been snapping pictures over the last nine months of your experiences? Get printouts from a photo place and stick them in a photo album with hand written crap (you'll get two thumbs up for this effort and it's cheap).
Fancy dinner that you'd not typically go to.
Road trip?
Hard to say, don't know this woman, but perhaps this might get you thinking.
SH
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scrouds
Master Don Juan
Get a box. Cut a hole in the box. Put your junk in the box, make her open the box.
If you want a serious gf, get her something serious. If you want a fun gf, get her something fun. If she's just a fuuck toy, get her something sexual.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thinking this not a good idea, as it would mean more to her if i chose it, but obviously i don't want her to say yeah she likes it, when she don't.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Sounds a crazy business to me,the giving of extravagant presents,is so easy to start,and can easily spiral out of control....
Seems like you are indulging in A "paleface" Potlatch...An Annual ceremony where Red Indian Tribes of your N.W. would indulge in an esteem building contest,involving the destruction of highly valued personal possessions....For the love of Mike,don't give the profligate carte blanche in a Jewelry shop,what if she wants a ring?