"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
GF of 9 months spent £200 for my bday, now its hers need ideas please
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
If you're serious and want to let her know, earrings would be acceptable, although might be a bit scant at 200.
A leather jacket would be about in the price range. Something hot/cute/soft would work.
Do you spend time at her place? How's her sound system? Any augmentation required (that she would understand)?
Or perhaps a few things...
Lingerie, other items that she's ... missing.
Have you been snapping pictures over the last nine months of your experiences? Get printouts from a photo place and stick them in a photo album with hand written crap (you'll get two thumbs up for this effort and it's cheap).
Fancy dinner that you'd not typically go to.
Road trip?
Hard to say, don't know this woman, but perhaps this might get you thinking.
SH
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Master Don Juan
Get a box. Cut a hole in the box. Put your junk in the box, make her open the box.
If you want a serious gf, get her something serious. If you want a fun gf, get her something fun. If she's just a fuuck toy, get her something sexual.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thinking this not a good idea, as it would mean more to her if i chose it, but obviously i don't want her to say yeah she likes it, when she don't.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Sounds a crazy business to me,the giving of extravagant presents,is so easy to start,and can easily spiral out of control....
Seems like you are indulging in A "paleface" Potlatch...An Annual ceremony where Red Indian Tribes of your N.W. would indulge in an esteem building contest,involving the destruction of highly valued personal possessions....For the love of Mike,don't give the profligate carte blanche in a Jewelry shop,what if she wants a ring?