"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GF of 9 months spent £200 for my bday, now its hers need ideas please
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
If you're serious and want to let her know, earrings would be acceptable, although might be a bit scant at 200.
A leather jacket would be about in the price range. Something hot/cute/soft would work.
Do you spend time at her place? How's her sound system? Any augmentation required (that she would understand)?
Or perhaps a few things...
Lingerie, other items that she's ... missing.
Have you been snapping pictures over the last nine months of your experiences? Get printouts from a photo place and stick them in a photo album with hand written crap (you'll get two thumbs up for this effort and it's cheap).
Fancy dinner that you'd not typically go to.
Road trip?
Hard to say, don't know this woman, but perhaps this might get you thinking.
SH
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Get a box. Cut a hole in the box. Put your junk in the box, make her open the box.
If you want a serious gf, get her something serious. If you want a fun gf, get her something fun. If she's just a fuuck toy, get her something sexual.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thinking this not a good idea, as it would mean more to her if i chose it, but obviously i don't want her to say yeah she likes it, when she don't.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Sounds a crazy business to me,the giving of extravagant presents,is so easy to start,and can easily spiral out of control....
Seems like you are indulging in A "paleface" Potlatch...An Annual ceremony where Red Indian Tribes of your N.W. would indulge in an esteem building contest,involving the destruction of highly valued personal possessions....For the love of Mike,don't give the profligate carte blanche in a Jewelry shop,what if she wants a ring?