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Master Don Juan
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If she "likes" a picture of your turnip, then you know it's on.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GF of 4 months broke it off today
- Thread starter AwlaysFukedUp
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bcude
Master Don Juan
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Just means she tries to get a reaction from him and make his hamster spin. Likes are a cheap way to try to make something happen without putting in any real effort and many get lured in. If she's really serious with her intentions she will pick up the phone and say she f*cked up and wants him back etc. everything else is breadcrumbs aka waste of time.
Ex's who reject you shouldn't really be in a position to send a like (delete from every platform), but that's of course another/personal decision.