"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girlfriend only ****s when it's dark, lights off, missionary, doggy, and sideways only. Was on top couple of times, but don't like it and can't do it. No BJ. How to make her do the entire karmasutra?

Another thing is that she don't like kissing on lips. During sex she'd kiss on lips, but no tongue. Says she don't like kissing.

IL medium to high, living together. She loves me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why would you move in with a girl who ****s like a cheap prostitute (no kissing - doesn't want to see you)? Seems like you got balls deep with a girl you shouldn't have.
 

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the problem is you not her...you need to learn how to bring out her desire, atm she is just doing it to keep you happy but this will only last for so long.
 

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I'd be upset with her simply because she isn't giving her all. Like she wants you to do as she pleases.
But that's just me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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women will close to you if you push to hard for something. They are creatures than open and close so you need to find out what works. Telling her verbally that she doesn't do this and that is certainly not the way. The way is through PRAISE. Praise her when you are having sex with her. But only things which you actually like about her and what she is doing. Use it lightly and see what happens...complaining and whining is not the way.
 

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window said:
the problem is you not her...you need to learn how to bring out her desire, atm she is just doing it to keep you happy but this will only last for so long.

You don't know that. Some women are just dead fish in bed.
 

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Hmm... people are different sexually, but it seems you got a bad case here lol.. is she a conservative person usually?
 

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First, I will say that I don't ask a girl to do anything, I tell her to do it. Had a girl once who refused to suck my d*ck after I started fvcking her, so the next time I made her c*m so hard from banging her from behind she fell to her knees because her legs turned to jello, and I immediately grabbed her by her hair shoved my d*ck in her face and told her to "come suck this d*ck" and she swallowed it without hesitation and it never was an issue again...you are the man...dominate the situation and tell her what to do...girls LOVE thst in bed and they will get so hot and prettt much do anything you tell them...

Also I recommend getting or finding the video series "2 Girls Teach Sex"...once yiu use those techniques a lot girls will be so turned on they will say stuff like "We can do whatever you want to do..."

I agree with one if the posters above tho in that it is you who is the problem here....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Sex positions sound fine to me, but the no BJ is a dealbreaker and sex with the lights off shows insecurity.

YES. She's jealous towards me weather I'm with my male friends or with female friends.
 

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another thing, i don't get how some women hate oral. everybody has different sexual likes (like different sexual positions) but i figured oral was normal sex in this day and age. it's not like whips and chains or strangling oneself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ilikecharlene said:
another thing, i don't get how some women hate oral. everybody has different sexual likes (like different sexual positions) but i figured oral was normal sex in this day and age. it's not like whips and chains or strangling oneself.
You 'don't get' how some women don't like putting dycks in their mouths?

I'm not saying they shouldn't do oral. But I understand.

OP have you done it troll-style?
 
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