"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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gf material or not

pyros

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
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sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
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good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Eliminating the drinking will help her in several ways:

1. Promiscuity likely lowered, since a lot of slvts can justify the slay after a few drinks
2. Normal body - shell lose some body fat from getting off the alcohol
3. Health will improve and she will take less risks.
 

dude99

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Cons seem a bit too heavy for GF material. Good plate but I wouldn't go beyond that.

Still hung up on her ex. Strike 1
Bad health. Strike 2. Unless you want to be a health care worker. This may be more of a burden than you are prepared to handle down the road.

Thinks people will cheat in the first 6 months. Strike 3. Baggage. And her accusation is usually because She has cheated in the first 6 months.

Plate. But thats my opinion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jetleg

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Dude99 is right.

Besides why do even think about it? She is a plate, if she wants to be in a relationship, she should bring ut up first.
 

Roober

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Still talks regularly to ex? Unless they have a kid together, there is no reason for that...

Great sex is a product of her prosmicuity... most women are capable of great sex once you know how to push the right buttons...
 
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