"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gf material or not

pyros

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
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sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
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good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrgoodstuff

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Eliminating the drinking will help her in several ways:

1. Promiscuity likely lowered, since a lot of slvts can justify the slay after a few drinks
2. Normal body - shell lose some body fat from getting off the alcohol
3. Health will improve and she will take less risks.
 

dude99

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Cons seem a bit too heavy for GF material. Good plate but I wouldn't go beyond that.

Still hung up on her ex. Strike 1
Bad health. Strike 2. Unless you want to be a health care worker. This may be more of a burden than you are prepared to handle down the road.

Thinks people will cheat in the first 6 months. Strike 3. Baggage. And her accusation is usually because She has cheated in the first 6 months.

Plate. But thats my opinion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jetleg

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Dude99 is right.

Besides why do even think about it? She is a plate, if she wants to be in a relationship, she should bring ut up first.
 

Roober

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Still talks regularly to ex? Unless they have a kid together, there is no reason for that...

Great sex is a product of her prosmicuity... most women are capable of great sex once you know how to push the right buttons...
 
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