"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gf material or not

pyros

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
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sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
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good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Eliminating the drinking will help her in several ways:

1. Promiscuity likely lowered, since a lot of slvts can justify the slay after a few drinks
2. Normal body - shell lose some body fat from getting off the alcohol
3. Health will improve and she will take less risks.
 

dude99

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Ive been seing this girl for around 5 months.
I know what I like about her, and I know what I dont like about her as well.

Would you seriously date a girl that has this pros and cons?:

pros:
-----
sweet
giver
great sex
hard-working
intelligent
likes kids
happy/always smiling
10 years younger
super into me


cons:
-----

good friends with her ex evenghough he cheated on her. They have weekly contact
because they share the same group of friends.
poor health. Risk of dangerous pregnancy.
too promiscuous/slutty
normal body
drinks a bit too much
kind of bisexual
thinks that in the first 6 months of any relationship, someone is gonna cheat on the other.
Cons seem a bit too heavy for GF material. Good plate but I wouldn't go beyond that.

Still hung up on her ex. Strike 1
Bad health. Strike 2. Unless you want to be a health care worker. This may be more of a burden than you are prepared to handle down the road.

Thinks people will cheat in the first 6 months. Strike 3. Baggage. And her accusation is usually because She has cheated in the first 6 months.

Plate. But thats my opinion.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jetleg

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Dude99 is right.

Besides why do even think about it? She is a plate, if she wants to be in a relationship, she should bring ut up first.
 

Roober

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Still talks regularly to ex? Unless they have a kid together, there is no reason for that...

Great sex is a product of her prosmicuity... most women are capable of great sex once you know how to push the right buttons...
 
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