zekko
Master Don Juan
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If anything, they would have to put active effort into not collecting them.Correct. They don’t need any avenue to collect orbiters other than to exist.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If anything, they would have to put active effort into not collecting them.Correct. They don’t need any avenue to collect orbiters other than to exist.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Many men do not understand and it’s really not their fault. I’m going to say some sh1t right now not to toot my horn but to simply illustrate a point.If anything, they would have to put active effort into not collecting them.
Social media has become a status indicator. It’s a fake life as you say but it 100% affects the way women feel about themselves.Real couples break up for real reasons and not snapface and mybook. That’s a stupid juvenile reason for her to throw a fit. Tell her to grow the hell up. You guys could potentially have kids and the responsibility to raise them and stuff. Like life can get a hell of a lot more serious than social media. WTF is up with this generation? Lmao.
You preach to the choir.Then the problem is the chick and her own insecurities. I say dump her.
If she is being this neurotic now, Just imagine down the road.
The integrity of the relationship is already broken because of how retarded the chick is. It is no longer a romantic relationship, but a needy and neurotic one.
Can you imagine years from now the OP saying to his future kid “You know, your mother and I almost didn’t get married and that means you wouldn’t exist.”
“Why dad?”
“Instagram.”
Your future family hangs in the balance because of INSTAGRAM?!?!?!?!?!
You see how retarded that looks? This is the future mother of your kids? LOL.
Dump the chick. Or downgrade her to plate status. Her neuroticness is only going to get worse.
The integrity of a romantic relationship depends on trust and two people being non needy and feeling secure and giving the other person space.
The integrity of this relationship is gone. It is no longer a romantic relationship but something else entirely. Something toxic.
she’s legit a 10/10 and I’m not even saying that because I’m dating her. Dudes even hit on her while we’re out together so I know she can level the playing field.Shes not capable of leveling the playing field. Your the god dam field and she doesn't even know how to do that. Do you guys even listen to yourselves??
Do you not own your own nut sack?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
she didn’t throw a fit. She just told me she didn’t like and it made her question her trust for me.Real couples break up for real reasons and not snapface and mybook. That’s a stupid juvenile reason for her to throw a fit. Tell her to grow the hell up. You guys could potentially have kids and the responsibility to raise them and stuff. Like life can get a hell of a lot more serious than social media. WTF is up with this generation? Lmao.
Why do you think this is a bad thing? Did you know that this is when they are on their best behavior? This is called competition anxiety. Do you understand what this does?she didn’t throw a fit. She just told me she didn’t like and it made her question her trust for me.
A thousand women over 18 years comes out to a little over one new woman a week over that period, which is pretty impressive, if true.I’m 33 years old and lost my virginity at 15. That’s 18 years of sexual experience where I have bedded over triple digits, dated possibly quadruple digits (?)
Technically its either her 2nd or 3rd husband now.Sh1t is gross if you think about it. Married woman, coming on a forum to live fantasies that she can't have...
How would her husband feel, good sir?
Not good!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh there's other threads?It’s disgusting. The gurls have been running the forum lately. I’ve just stayed back and observed. Maybe three posts the past three weeks.
I was guessing. Definitely not that rate haha. Maybe 400 or 500? Lots of first dates in there and lots of silent periods as well. There have also been weeks where I’ve had 4 dates in. 5 days. It’s not super important it was just to say I’ve had my fair share of experience. Like I said I’m sure people here have more.A thousand women over 18 years comes out to a little over one new woman a week over that period, which is pretty impressive, if true.
Although maybe I'm not factoring in OLD.
Talk about wisdom that is rarely seen on this website hahaha. This is golden, pony boy!Technically its either her 2nd or 3rd husband now.
So can you imagine the manipulation she has used on him to 1st to agree to marry her, 2nd raise another man's DNA and now after all that, agree to her stalking an all male forum?
If a man does the same on an all female forum, trying to manipulate and groom females there, he would be called a dangerous pervert.