"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GF going bar hopping without me

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It's not about confidence. Neither is it abt insecurities.

And u r right, it's about value. It's abt being smart.

I'll tell you this, from experience, from actually actively participating in that life style for maybe 2 decades and a good 4 years as a former owner of a nightclub; 90% of women that patronised a club will cheat, the 7% that doesn't cheat is because she's either too fat or too ugly or too old.

Then there's 3% that doesn't cheat, they've there to merely celebrate after a wedding with the newly weds or being supportive of their bff who just broke up etc.

I might be wrong +/- 1 or 2 points on the % but it's generally about there in my estimation.

Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
She might get off on cawk teasing and call it a night after jerking the guys around .
 

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It's a matter of personal choice.. If you CHOOSE to get into Relationships with woman who are OFTEN getting drunk in clubs and bars, then stop fukin complaining and getting all INSECURE over these hoe!

I personally choose not to invest LONG TERM in bar sluts.. I feel they are a LIABILITY..

If you make your bed, then fukin lay in it.
If your dating an active ho3 don't complain about it . In this scenario your supposed to have a rotation . If she becomes too much of a pain in the ass, discard.
 

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What do you guys think? I sent her a text last night at 7pm asking if she was ok and she replied I’m fine. Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night. Then early this morning she texts I had to much to drink at work yesterday and went bar hopping. She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
You have lost the frame. The only way to get it back is to use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
 

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use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
Yes. If she spends her free time how she wants, then he can also.
Femminists call it gender equality… Lmao
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think that is a very rare occurrence.
Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
 
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Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
I was just in the private VIP room with 2 different girls the other day. No sex at all.

Tell me where you've actually seen a girl do something like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No he wanted some of my life story whixh is not open for public viewing…
Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking pic and stories - a perversion or an acquired taste
 

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Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
 

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Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
 

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I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
Means you need to reconnect with people again.

It's a great idea. I know you'll do well. Good luck and god speed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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