"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not about confidence. Neither is it abt insecurities.

And u r right, it's about value. It's abt being smart.

I'll tell you this, from experience, from actually actively participating in that life style for maybe 2 decades and a good 4 years as a former owner of a nightclub; 90% of women that patronised a club will cheat, the 7% that doesn't cheat is because she's either too fat or too ugly or too old.

Then there's 3% that doesn't cheat, they've there to merely celebrate after a wedding with the newly weds or being supportive of their bff who just broke up etc.

I might be wrong +/- 1 or 2 points on the % but it's generally about there in my estimation.

Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
She might get off on cawk teasing and call it a night after jerking the guys around .
 

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It's a matter of personal choice.. If you CHOOSE to get into Relationships with woman who are OFTEN getting drunk in clubs and bars, then stop fukin complaining and getting all INSECURE over these hoe!

I personally choose not to invest LONG TERM in bar sluts.. I feel they are a LIABILITY..

If you make your bed, then fukin lay in it.
If your dating an active ho3 don't complain about it . In this scenario your supposed to have a rotation . If she becomes too much of a pain in the ass, discard.
 

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What do you guys think? I sent her a text last night at 7pm asking if she was ok and she replied I’m fine. Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night. Then early this morning she texts I had to much to drink at work yesterday and went bar hopping. She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
You have lost the frame. The only way to get it back is to use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
 

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use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
Yes. If she spends her free time how she wants, then he can also.
Femminists call it gender equality… Lmao
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think that is a very rare occurrence.
Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
 
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Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
I was just in the private VIP room with 2 different girls the other day. No sex at all.

Tell me where you've actually seen a girl do something like that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No he wanted some of my life story whixh is not open for public viewing…
Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking pic and stories - a perversion or an acquired taste
 

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Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
 

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Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
 

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I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
Means you need to reconnect with people again.

It's a great idea. I know you'll do well. Good luck and god speed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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