"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GF going bar hopping without me

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It's not about confidence. Neither is it abt insecurities.

And u r right, it's about value. It's abt being smart.

I'll tell you this, from experience, from actually actively participating in that life style for maybe 2 decades and a good 4 years as a former owner of a nightclub; 90% of women that patronised a club will cheat, the 7% that doesn't cheat is because she's either too fat or too ugly or too old.

Then there's 3% that doesn't cheat, they've there to merely celebrate after a wedding with the newly weds or being supportive of their bff who just broke up etc.

I might be wrong +/- 1 or 2 points on the % but it's generally about there in my estimation.

Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Intoxicated woman, in skimpy outfits.. Sexualy charged environment.. Dudes are out desperate to empty there load..

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG
She might get off on cawk teasing and call it a night after jerking the guys around .
 

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It's a matter of personal choice.. If you CHOOSE to get into Relationships with woman who are OFTEN getting drunk in clubs and bars, then stop fukin complaining and getting all INSECURE over these hoe!

I personally choose not to invest LONG TERM in bar sluts.. I feel they are a LIABILITY..

If you make your bed, then fukin lay in it.
If your dating an active ho3 don't complain about it . In this scenario your supposed to have a rotation . If she becomes too much of a pain in the ass, discard.
 

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What do you guys think? I sent her a text last night at 7pm asking if she was ok and she replied I’m fine. Then I didn’t hear from her the rest of the night. Then early this morning she texts I had to much to drink at work yesterday and went bar hopping. She didn’t mention that last night. Thoughts?
You have lost the frame. The only way to get it back is to use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
 

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use your free time working to expand your harem. If your girlfriend complains, just tell her that you were bored.
Yes. If she spends her free time how she wants, then he can also.
Femminists call it gender equality… Lmao
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think that is a very rare occurrence.
Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
 
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Hardcore sluts do exist. Strippers, porn queens, lipstick hoes, whatever, it’s reality, embrace it as such…
Whether you’re a buyer or seller, you better know the market…
Now stop acting ignorant.
I was just in the private VIP room with 2 different girls the other day. No sex at all.

Tell me where you've actually seen a girl do something like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No he wanted some of my life story whixh is not open for public viewing…
Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking pic and stories - a perversion or an acquired taste
 

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Well. 90% of us would be better served taking a "ss" break of several months and fully living our lives.


Bigdave17 hasn't said anything in a while, I hope he recalibrated himself and is slaying babes.
Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
 

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Treat SS like opening your email folder's on the smartphone and taking everything with a grain of salt.

I receive roughly 100 emails per day, easy to manage and I find SS helps as a fun distraction.
I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
 

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I just need to stop looking for a while. Same with Facebook. Just be present in the moment .
Means you need to reconnect with people again.

It's a great idea. I know you'll do well. Good luck and god speed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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