"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My gf was at a family dinner and a a guy at the table kept talking to her and was interested in her .she would reply with short answers but he eventually asked for her number . She told me she gave him a fake number and then he called it to confirm and right after she told him that it makes no sense to save it cause she has a boyfriend.

My concern is that why didn't she just say that she had a boyfriend from jump? Idk if I'm overreacting but is this a red flag? I told her I'm on the verge of breaking up with her ..
 

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If you're on the verge of breaking up with her it shouldn't really matter anymore. Were you at the family dinner to see it or was she just telling you the story of what she claims went down?
 
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I'm on the verge because of the story . I just felt like instead of give a fake number just say you have a BF but she ended up telling him that after he exposed the fake number
 
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She probably did not want to be like every other girl and say they have a boyfriend when most of the time they do not. Sure she wouldn't be lying if she said that. She didn't give out her real number to him did she? So why be worried about some dude pursuing her when your girl clearly seemed not interested in him?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Capt.America said:
My concern is that why didn't she just say that she had a boyfriend from jump?
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Interested Guy: Hi
GF: Sorry I have a boyfriend.

Is that what you approve? Anyway, no idea why she told you the story.
 
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She gave him the real number after he exposed the fake one(which was really close to hers) to act like she made a slight mistake but she quickly told him that there's no point to save it because she has a boyfriend . He said he understood and walked away .

She told me cuz we have a honest thing going on where we don't hide things from each other . I believe her story but I just felt u could've said u had a boyfriend
 
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Stop being a beta and overreacting. Girls will do stuff like this to test you. Sometimes they'll make up guys to make you jealous.

Not reacting is the best thing to do.
 

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I would be posses just at the thought of some phaggot trying to hollar at my girl. The thing is women are like dogs in a way...they have to be trained and they will fail every so often...just like anyone.

I would say look, I dont like guys hitting on you. If it happens you need to be assertive enough to shut it down and make it known you are taken. If you are leading guys on or not putting a stop to active interest then that's fine. But you will be doing it single because I don't need to be here for this.
 
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Because most guys are persistent and won't take no for an answer. "There are guys that follow the saying just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you cannot score." The same guys saying your gf is wrong probably hit on girls with bfs anyway.
 
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Capt.America said:
She gave him the real number after he exposed the fake one(which was really close to hers) to act like she made a slight mistake but she quickly told him that there's no point to save it because she has a boyfriend . He said he understood and walked away .
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Are you saying she first gave him a fake number then she gave him her real number?
 

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Capt.America said:
She gave him the real number after he exposed the fake one(which was really close to hers) to act like she made a slight mistake but she quickly told him that there's no point to save it because she has a boyfriend . He said he understood and walked away .
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She is giving you hints. You should understand and walk away.
 
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If she it telling you this then you are either being tested or she is sending you a message that you are on your way out. She is communicating to you that she has options.

This is what women do. They communicate indirectly and it's up to you to read between the lines and take the hint.
 
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