GF etiquette

[In Motion]

Hi guys! I havent been here for a long time, but Ive heard good things about the site. Anyways, my situation is that both me and my friend have had crushes on each other for a long time and we sorta admitted it to each other a couple of days ago. Unfortunatly she was on a trip so i couldn't talk to her face to face.

Before I start questioning, Ill give you some info about the situation. Me and this girl are just absolutely PERFECT for each other. Yes I realize this might sound stupid but w/e. All of our friends have been joking about us and telling us we should get together. We can talk for hours on end we know lots about eachother. I really dont know why Ive been putting of asking her out, I guess I just really didn't want a girlfriend.

Also I am neither a nice guy or a jerk, uuuhm, I dont really know how to put this but Im sort of a nice jerk if you guys get what I mean? Anywho:

Now I have 2 questions. The first is, when i first see her on monday (keep in mind that I have we just admitted some stuff to each other) what should I do? In these situations I am really either fantastic or i just screw up. Its prob gonna be a little awkward, so what do I say to her when I first see her?

The second is (not to seem arrogant or anything but Im basically 99% sure she'll be my gf by the end of the week) when we are together in class or just with friends what is normal gf etiquette? Ive had like 3-4 gfs in the past but none of them have ever been in my class! Im great when its just me and her but when we are in class or hanging out with others im just like 50 % sure of what to do.

Hope you guys understood!

 

[In Motion]

I would really appreciate some answers!

 

[GaryUranga]

umm.. my advice on the first is that.. shes pretty much thinkign the same thign as you, act normal and shell probably bring it up

 

[In Motion]

Hmm, interesting. Any other suggestions?

Just some pointers on question 2 would be nice too.

 

[drmeathead]

just be cool. you guys have gotten along so far. keep it the same. being bf/gf with her just now means you are hooking up with her. you guys used to talk for hours and what not so things were working. keep it the same. not change course.

 

[In Motion]

Sounds good! Any last minute tips before tomorrow?

 

[just so suave]

Well she now knows you like her, so theres no need to tell her again. You'll probly feel the urge to tell her how much you like her and how long you've liked her but telling her could put her off. If she does mention your last conversation, an asks you how you feel, it would be real smooth if you layed a kiss on her right there. Good luck

 

[In Motion]

All right. Wish me luck!

 

[In Motion]

Aaaaah, ok. Today was the big day.

I got her alone after school and we went for a walk. We started talking and when we were talking about us, I just stopped and took both her hands and kissed her long and good. When it ended she kissed me again so I take it thats a good sign.

Sorry for not updating, but Im glad I waited until now!

 

[DamHE]

good job!! thats really good of you

 

[In Motion]

Thank you! It was great to just tell her and hear her tell me. I would recommend everyone to do the same, just tell her!