"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GF etiquette

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Hi guys! I havent been here for a long time, but Ive heard good things about the site. Anyways, my situation is that both me and my friend have had crushes on each other for a long time and we sorta admitted it to each other a couple of days ago. Unfortunatly she was on a trip so i couldn't talk to her face to face.

Before I start questioning, Ill give you some info about the situation. Me and this girl are just absolutely PERFECT for each other. Yes I realize this might sound stupid but w/e. All of our friends have been joking about us and telling us we should get together. We can talk for hours on end we know lots about eachother. I really dont know why Ive been putting of asking her out, I guess I just really didn't want a girlfriend.

Also I am neither a nice guy or a jerk, uuuhm, I dont really know how to put this but Im sort of a nice jerk if you guys get what I mean? Anywho:

Now I have 2 questions. The first is, when i first see her on monday (keep in mind that I have we just admitted some stuff to each other) what should I do? In these situations I am really either fantastic or i just screw up. Its prob gonna be a little awkward, so what do I say to her when I first see her?

The second is (not to seem arrogant or anything but Im basically 99% sure she'll be my gf by the end of the week) when we are together in class or just with friends what is normal gf etiquette? Ive had like 3-4 gfs in the past but none of them have ever been in my class! Im great when its just me and her but when we are in class or hanging out with others im just like 50 % sure of what to do.

Hope you guys understood!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just be cool. you guys have gotten along so far. keep it the same. being bf/gf with her just now means you are hooking up with her. you guys used to talk for hours and what not so things were working. keep it the same. not change course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well she now knows you like her, so theres no need to tell her again. You'll probly feel the urge to tell her how much you like her and how long you've liked her but telling her could put her off. If she does mention your last conversation, an asks you how you feel, it would be real smooth if you layed a kiss on her right there. Good luck
 
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Aaaaah, ok. Today was the big day.

I got her alone after school and we went for a walk. We started talking and when we were talking about us, I just stopped and took both her hands and kissed her long and good. When it ended she kissed me again so I take it thats a good sign.

Sorry for not updating, but Im glad I waited until now!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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