"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GF etiquette

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Hi guys! I havent been here for a long time, but Ive heard good things about the site. Anyways, my situation is that both me and my friend have had crushes on each other for a long time and we sorta admitted it to each other a couple of days ago. Unfortunatly she was on a trip so i couldn't talk to her face to face.

Before I start questioning, Ill give you some info about the situation. Me and this girl are just absolutely PERFECT for each other. Yes I realize this might sound stupid but w/e. All of our friends have been joking about us and telling us we should get together. We can talk for hours on end we know lots about eachother. I really dont know why Ive been putting of asking her out, I guess I just really didn't want a girlfriend.

Also I am neither a nice guy or a jerk, uuuhm, I dont really know how to put this but Im sort of a nice jerk if you guys get what I mean? Anywho:

Now I have 2 questions. The first is, when i first see her on monday (keep in mind that I have we just admitted some stuff to each other) what should I do? In these situations I am really either fantastic or i just screw up. Its prob gonna be a little awkward, so what do I say to her when I first see her?

The second is (not to seem arrogant or anything but Im basically 99% sure she'll be my gf by the end of the week) when we are together in class or just with friends what is normal gf etiquette? Ive had like 3-4 gfs in the past but none of them have ever been in my class! Im great when its just me and her but when we are in class or hanging out with others im just like 50 % sure of what to do.

Hope you guys understood!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just be cool. you guys have gotten along so far. keep it the same. being bf/gf with her just now means you are hooking up with her. you guys used to talk for hours and what not so things were working. keep it the same. not change course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well she now knows you like her, so theres no need to tell her again. You'll probly feel the urge to tell her how much you like her and how long you've liked her but telling her could put her off. If she does mention your last conversation, an asks you how you feel, it would be real smooth if you layed a kiss on her right there. Good luck
 
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Aaaaah, ok. Today was the big day.

I got her alone after school and we went for a walk. We started talking and when we were talking about us, I just stopped and took both her hands and kissed her long and good. When it ended she kissed me again so I take it thats a good sign.

Sorry for not updating, but Im glad I waited until now!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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