"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gf doesn't want to blow me

Monkey

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My last serious GF just wasn't confident giving bjs, she was a pretty confident girl but because a bj to her was all about the woman 'performing' she struggled to feel comfortable doing it.

Having said that, I woke up on a number of occasions with her experimenting on my morning wood, she'd stop when she realised I was awake though, haha.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YA FLYNESS

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"Just put it in her mouth" alkoholiks
the worst that can happen is she riffs at you good luck
 

bigjohnson

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If it's important to you then time to move on - sounds like she's got serious germ/cleanliness issues and usually the BEST you could hope for is a half-hearted BJ from someone who was doing it and hating every second of it.

Item is defective - NEXT.
 
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She is 21 years old. I think that she is just very self-conscious about herself-She prefers to be under the covers and doesnt even want to get on top. Obviously I will next her--but keep her until I can find someone else.
 
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