"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gf doesn't want to blow me

Monkey

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My last serious GF just wasn't confident giving bjs, she was a pretty confident girl but because a bj to her was all about the woman 'performing' she struggled to feel comfortable doing it.

Having said that, I woke up on a number of occasions with her experimenting on my morning wood, she'd stop when she realised I was awake though, haha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YA FLYNESS

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"Just put it in her mouth" alkoholiks
the worst that can happen is she riffs at you good luck
 

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If it's important to you then time to move on - sounds like she's got serious germ/cleanliness issues and usually the BEST you could hope for is a half-hearted BJ from someone who was doing it and hating every second of it.

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She is 21 years old. I think that she is just very self-conscious about herself-She prefers to be under the covers and doesnt even want to get on top. Obviously I will next her--but keep her until I can find someone else.
 
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