"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gf doesn't want to blow me

Monkey

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My last serious GF just wasn't confident giving bjs, she was a pretty confident girl but because a bj to her was all about the woman 'performing' she struggled to feel comfortable doing it.

Having said that, I woke up on a number of occasions with her experimenting on my morning wood, she'd stop when she realised I was awake though, haha.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YA FLYNESS

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"Just put it in her mouth" alkoholiks
the worst that can happen is she riffs at you good luck
 

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If it's important to you then time to move on - sounds like she's got serious germ/cleanliness issues and usually the BEST you could hope for is a half-hearted BJ from someone who was doing it and hating every second of it.

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She is 21 years old. I think that she is just very self-conscious about herself-She prefers to be under the covers and doesnt even want to get on top. Obviously I will next her--but keep her until I can find someone else.
 
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