"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GF didn't get wet tonight ...

AlexTheGreat

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So my girlfriend and I were watching a movie tonight, it was really good, we're both really into it, but I caressed her once in a while. Anyways, after the movie, I grab her, start smelling her, and we start making out. For a good 10 minutes, we were making out on my bed, dry humping in the process, and I start taking off her clothes. We keep kissing, and I start to rub her, but she's not getting wet. I told her and she goes "hmm I don't know, I guess I'm tired tonight, I'm not really in the mood". So I got off and we talked about it, and I seemed a little out of it, so she asks whats wrong. After a little while I told her that I thought it was weird, cuz I was wondering if this meant something more.

So I ask you, dear sosuavers: do you think this means anything more than what she told me?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX

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Sometimes people really do just get tired.

If she's been consistently good to you in your relationship and you feel you can trust her I wouldn't worry about this.

Now if it becomes a regular habit then its a problem either with your relationship or her body is fvcking up on her and she needs to see the doctor.
 

AlexTheGreat

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Alright cool :) Our relationship is going really good, so I was just surprised that she didn't get wet even after all we had done.

Thanks for the fast reply :)
 

nubian-knight

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more foreplay?

if all else fails remember: just like guys cant get it up once in awhile, girls may have problems naturally lubing up. its not a problem unless it happens often
 

sotellme_19

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she may have had her mind on other things, that happens from time to time as the stress of life and worries can get in the way of feeling in the moment. don't let it worry you unless it becomes a daily thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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onyx

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she might be a post op tranny
 

LovelyLady

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Could be many reasons for this.. most likely just what she said - her mind just wasn't able to fully relax and enjoy - it happens sometimes. Most often though it is just a hormonal thing - changes in estrogen with the menstrual cycle.
 

Wiesman44

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onyx said:
she might be a post op tranny
Don't you hate it when that happens ? Pre-ops are more fun b/c you can switch roles :moon:
 
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