"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GF didn't get wet tonight ...

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AlexTheGreat

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So my girlfriend and I were watching a movie tonight, it was really good, we're both really into it, but I caressed her once in a while. Anyways, after the movie, I grab her, start smelling her, and we start making out. For a good 10 minutes, we were making out on my bed, dry humping in the process, and I start taking off her clothes. We keep kissing, and I start to rub her, but she's not getting wet. I told her and she goes "hmm I don't know, I guess I'm tired tonight, I'm not really in the mood". So I got off and we talked about it, and I seemed a little out of it, so she asks whats wrong. After a little while I told her that I thought it was weird, cuz I was wondering if this meant something more.

So I ask you, dear sosuavers: do you think this means anything more than what she told me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Sometimes people really do just get tired.

If she's been consistently good to you in your relationship and you feel you can trust her I wouldn't worry about this.

Now if it becomes a regular habit then its a problem either with your relationship or her body is fvcking up on her and she needs to see the doctor.
 
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Alright cool :) Our relationship is going really good, so I was just surprised that she didn't get wet even after all we had done.

Thanks for the fast reply :)
 
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more foreplay?

if all else fails remember: just like guys cant get it up once in awhile, girls may have problems naturally lubing up. its not a problem unless it happens often
 
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she may have had her mind on other things, that happens from time to time as the stress of life and worries can get in the way of feeling in the moment. don't let it worry you unless it becomes a daily thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she might be a post op tranny
 
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LovelyLady

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Could be many reasons for this.. most likely just what she said - her mind just wasn't able to fully relax and enjoy - it happens sometimes. Most often though it is just a hormonal thing - changes in estrogen with the menstrual cycle.
 
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onyx said:
she might be a post op tranny
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Don't you hate it when that happens ? Pre-ops are more fun b/c you can switch roles :moon:
 
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