"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GF didn't get wet tonight ...

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So my girlfriend and I were watching a movie tonight, it was really good, we're both really into it, but I caressed her once in a while. Anyways, after the movie, I grab her, start smelling her, and we start making out. For a good 10 minutes, we were making out on my bed, dry humping in the process, and I start taking off her clothes. We keep kissing, and I start to rub her, but she's not getting wet. I told her and she goes "hmm I don't know, I guess I'm tired tonight, I'm not really in the mood". So I got off and we talked about it, and I seemed a little out of it, so she asks whats wrong. After a little while I told her that I thought it was weird, cuz I was wondering if this meant something more.

So I ask you, dear sosuavers: do you think this means anything more than what she told me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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Sometimes people really do just get tired.

If she's been consistently good to you in your relationship and you feel you can trust her I wouldn't worry about this.

Now if it becomes a regular habit then its a problem either with your relationship or her body is fvcking up on her and she needs to see the doctor.
 
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Alright cool :) Our relationship is going really good, so I was just surprised that she didn't get wet even after all we had done.

Thanks for the fast reply :)
 
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more foreplay?

if all else fails remember: just like guys cant get it up once in awhile, girls may have problems naturally lubing up. its not a problem unless it happens often
 
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she may have had her mind on other things, that happens from time to time as the stress of life and worries can get in the way of feeling in the moment. don't let it worry you unless it becomes a daily thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she might be a post op tranny
 
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Could be many reasons for this.. most likely just what she said - her mind just wasn't able to fully relax and enjoy - it happens sometimes. Most often though it is just a hormonal thing - changes in estrogen with the menstrual cycle.
 
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onyx said:
she might be a post op tranny
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Don't you hate it when that happens ? Pre-ops are more fun b/c you can switch roles :moon:
 
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