"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GF didn't get wet tonight ...

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So my girlfriend and I were watching a movie tonight, it was really good, we're both really into it, but I caressed her once in a while. Anyways, after the movie, I grab her, start smelling her, and we start making out. For a good 10 minutes, we were making out on my bed, dry humping in the process, and I start taking off her clothes. We keep kissing, and I start to rub her, but she's not getting wet. I told her and she goes "hmm I don't know, I guess I'm tired tonight, I'm not really in the mood". So I got off and we talked about it, and I seemed a little out of it, so she asks whats wrong. After a little while I told her that I thought it was weird, cuz I was wondering if this meant something more.

So I ask you, dear sosuavers: do you think this means anything more than what she told me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sometimes people really do just get tired.

If she's been consistently good to you in your relationship and you feel you can trust her I wouldn't worry about this.

Now if it becomes a regular habit then its a problem either with your relationship or her body is fvcking up on her and she needs to see the doctor.
 
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Alright cool :) Our relationship is going really good, so I was just surprised that she didn't get wet even after all we had done.

Thanks for the fast reply :)
 
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more foreplay?

if all else fails remember: just like guys cant get it up once in awhile, girls may have problems naturally lubing up. its not a problem unless it happens often
 
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she may have had her mind on other things, that happens from time to time as the stress of life and worries can get in the way of feeling in the moment. don't let it worry you unless it becomes a daily thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she might be a post op tranny
 
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Could be many reasons for this.. most likely just what she said - her mind just wasn't able to fully relax and enjoy - it happens sometimes. Most often though it is just a hormonal thing - changes in estrogen with the menstrual cycle.
 
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onyx said:
she might be a post op tranny
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Don't you hate it when that happens ? Pre-ops are more fun b/c you can switch roles :moon:
 
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