You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Livinlifehard said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
exactly!!! dump that *****Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
I know its hard to get rid of a girl, and i was assuming he was really into her. No i dont care about a chicks past, but then again i dont find it disheartening to dump a girl real fast... plus i always seem able to pull more when i am with a girl.Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.