She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Livinlifehard said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
exactly!!! dump that *****Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
I know its hard to get rid of a girl, and i was assuming he was really into her. No i dont care about a chicks past, but then again i dont find it disheartening to dump a girl real fast... plus i always seem able to pull more when i am with a girl.Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.