I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Livinlifehard said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
exactly!!! dump that *****Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
I know its hard to get rid of a girl, and i was assuming he was really into her. No i dont care about a chicks past, but then again i dont find it disheartening to dump a girl real fast... plus i always seem able to pull more when i am with a girl.Pimp-sicle said:You never judge a chick based on her past??? LOL Wow you must be a human doormat to chicks then. The BEST indicator of a chick's behavior is her past.
Furthermore your telling this dude to keep this cheating, lying slvt of a gf then saying not to be surprised if she cheats?? LOL Great advice buddy..
This chick suxs and she's a manipulative, piece of trash. She's only worth a cheap fuvk if that, get rid of her @ss. You'll never trust her from now on and it will cause tons of jealousy and problems down the road.
PIMP
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.