so my gf left for college yesterday and I am staying at home and going to community college. I find myself at nighttime especially with feelings I know are AFC: jealousy, worry. It IS college and we all know what people do at college especially freshman. She calls me everyday and I'll be visiting her weekly but I don't know how I should be feeling.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This thread here is a different one than the other two posted.
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
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Is she a virgin?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Dude, chill...
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.