so my gf left for college yesterday and I am staying at home and going to community college. I find myself at nighttime especially with feelings I know are AFC: jealousy, worry. It IS college and we all know what people do at college especially freshman. She calls me everyday and I'll be visiting her weekly but I don't know how I should be feeling.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This thread here is a different one than the other two posted.
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
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Is she a virgin?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Dude, chill...
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.