so my gf left for college yesterday and I am staying at home and going to community college. I find myself at nighttime especially with feelings I know are AFC: jealousy, worry. It IS college and we all know what people do at college especially freshman. She calls me everyday and I'll be visiting her weekly but I don't know how I should be feeling.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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dot.Master Bates said:
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This thread here is a different one than the other two posted.
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
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Is she a virgin?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Dude, chill...
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.