so my gf left for college yesterday and I am staying at home and going to community college. I find myself at nighttime especially with feelings I know are AFC: jealousy, worry. It IS college and we all know what people do at college especially freshman. She calls me everyday and I'll be visiting her weekly but I don't know how I should be feeling.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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This thread here is a different one than the other two posted.
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
You should check it out.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=129077
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Is she a virgin?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Dude, chill...
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.
The more irrational and paranoid you get about her cheating, the more you're going to drive her into someone elses arms.
You stay as the amazing, confident boyfriend that you are at the moment, and you don't let it worry you.