"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gf asking for a massage...

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Okay, so a mutual friend of me and my gf needed to get a book for a class she took last year, and when he offered to pay she told him not to pay with money cuz a massage from him would be worth more. She's a volleyball coach so she's often sore, so I do give her massages pretty often, and they usually relax her and lead to us messing around, so I kinda asked her why she'd ask him for a massage, and she backpedalled and said she was just joking with him.

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino, and I don't like the idea that she'd want someone else to touch her. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it sounds fishy however making a big deal out of it will get the "your jealous" and "dont you trust me " "mr insecure" fingers pointed at you.
just watch your back.
 

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Originally posted by thejackofalltrades

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino
So does she.

Something to think about, always trust your gut.

Forget the "shes always sore, cause shes a volleyball coach" crap. The equivalant of her getting a massage off this douche is you getting your d!ck sucked by some other chick.

Penkittens right, dont challenge her on it or you will get the kiss of death. Just calmly go in search of your equivalant to a massage, obviously keep tapping the coach though.
 
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