"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, so a mutual friend of me and my gf needed to get a book for a class she took last year, and when he offered to pay she told him not to pay with money cuz a massage from him would be worth more. She's a volleyball coach so she's often sore, so I do give her massages pretty often, and they usually relax her and lead to us messing around, so I kinda asked her why she'd ask him for a massage, and she backpedalled and said she was just joking with him.

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino, and I don't like the idea that she'd want someone else to touch her. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it sounds fishy however making a big deal out of it will get the "your jealous" and "dont you trust me " "mr insecure" fingers pointed at you.
just watch your back.
 

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Originally posted by thejackofalltrades

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino
So does she.

Something to think about, always trust your gut.

Forget the "shes always sore, cause shes a volleyball coach" crap. The equivalant of her getting a massage off this douche is you getting your d!ck sucked by some other chick.

Penkittens right, dont challenge her on it or you will get the kiss of death. Just calmly go in search of your equivalant to a massage, obviously keep tapping the coach though.
 
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