"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, so a mutual friend of me and my gf needed to get a book for a class she took last year, and when he offered to pay she told him not to pay with money cuz a massage from him would be worth more. She's a volleyball coach so she's often sore, so I do give her massages pretty often, and they usually relax her and lead to us messing around, so I kinda asked her why she'd ask him for a massage, and she backpedalled and said she was just joking with him.

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino, and I don't like the idea that she'd want someone else to touch her. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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it sounds fishy however making a big deal out of it will get the "your jealous" and "dont you trust me " "mr insecure" fingers pointed at you.
just watch your back.
 

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Originally posted by thejackofalltrades

Am I the only one who would find this a little messed up of her? Personally I don't want any guy touching my girl since I know the power of touch and kino
So does she.

Something to think about, always trust your gut.

Forget the "shes always sore, cause shes a volleyball coach" crap. The equivalant of her getting a massage off this douche is you getting your d!ck sucked by some other chick.

Penkittens right, dont challenge her on it or you will get the kiss of death. Just calmly go in search of your equivalant to a massage, obviously keep tapping the coach though.
 
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