We've been having sex for over a year but for the last couple months I have to pull out before anyone gets off because the pain becomes unbearable for her. She's fine when we start but after about 30 seconds this happens. She used to feel this way after she came and i keep going but this is before she comes now. This is frustrating. Does anybody have experience with this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gf always hurts during sex
- Thread starter bud_2005
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MacAvoy
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Have her go see a gynachologist (sp?) It requires professional help, I would have been taking her there myself after the 3rd time. I'm a sex addict and couldn't put up with only getting 30 seconds.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how old is she?
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
MacAvoy
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If you learnt how to read, you'd notice that they've already been having sex for over a year, so I think its safe to assume, she's already broken in.penkitten said:
She's what LMS would refer to as a hor now.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
since when am i refering to people as hors like lms?MacAvoy said:
macavoy, i was replying to the original poster bud2005.. and if you learned how to read, you'd notice that you just admitted to trolling the sites under the name of bud2005.
however, that is beside the point.
the point is, even if you have sex once in a while, it takes most females a long time to get used to having sex, and many complain of pain and discomfort.
if she never complained before, and is now, i would seek out a nearby gynecologist to see if she has a kidney or urinary tract or pelvic or bacteria infection as all can be quite common and would cause pain.
also, when you make a thread asking for advice, you could be nicer to the people that are trying to help you, instead of being rude like that.
i have never been rude to you under the name macavoy or the name bud2005.
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what about vagina pain after sex? mine cant insert a tampon because it hurts.
Sounds like it might be a yeast infection, or something. Several of my girlfriends have had these in the past, and it makes for a painful experience if you try to have sex for even less than a minute. Take her to the doctor!