We've been having sex for over a year but for the last couple months I have to pull out before anyone gets off because the pain becomes unbearable for her. She's fine when we start but after about 30 seconds this happens. She used to feel this way after she came and i keep going but this is before she comes now. This is frustrating. Does anybody have experience with this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gf always hurts during sex
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MacAvoy
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Have her go see a gynachologist (sp?) It requires professional help, I would have been taking her there myself after the 3rd time. I'm a sex addict and couldn't put up with only getting 30 seconds.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how old is she?
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
MacAvoy
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If you learnt how to read, you'd notice that they've already been having sex for over a year, so I think its safe to assume, she's already broken in.penkitten said:
She's what LMS would refer to as a hor now.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
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Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
since when am i refering to people as hors like lms?MacAvoy said:
macavoy, i was replying to the original poster bud2005.. and if you learned how to read, you'd notice that you just admitted to trolling the sites under the name of bud2005.
however, that is beside the point.
the point is, even if you have sex once in a while, it takes most females a long time to get used to having sex, and many complain of pain and discomfort.
if she never complained before, and is now, i would seek out a nearby gynecologist to see if she has a kidney or urinary tract or pelvic or bacteria infection as all can be quite common and would cause pain.
also, when you make a thread asking for advice, you could be nicer to the people that are trying to help you, instead of being rude like that.
i have never been rude to you under the name macavoy or the name bud2005.
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what about vagina pain after sex? mine cant insert a tampon because it hurts.
Sounds like it might be a yeast infection, or something. Several of my girlfriends have had these in the past, and it makes for a painful experience if you try to have sex for even less than a minute. Take her to the doctor!