We've been having sex for over a year but for the last couple months I have to pull out before anyone gets off because the pain becomes unbearable for her. She's fine when we start but after about 30 seconds this happens. She used to feel this way after she came and i keep going but this is before she comes now. This is frustrating. Does anybody have experience with this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Gf always hurts during sex
- Thread starter bud_2005
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MacAvoy
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Have her go see a gynachologist (sp?) It requires professional help, I would have been taking her there myself after the 3rd time. I'm a sex addict and couldn't put up with only getting 30 seconds.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
how old is she?
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
if she is young and still not broken in... it is going to hurt.
MacAvoy
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If you learnt how to read, you'd notice that they've already been having sex for over a year, so I think its safe to assume, she's already broken in.penkitten said:
She's what LMS would refer to as a hor now.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
since when am i refering to people as hors like lms?MacAvoy said:
macavoy, i was replying to the original poster bud2005.. and if you learned how to read, you'd notice that you just admitted to trolling the sites under the name of bud2005.
however, that is beside the point.
the point is, even if you have sex once in a while, it takes most females a long time to get used to having sex, and many complain of pain and discomfort.
if she never complained before, and is now, i would seek out a nearby gynecologist to see if she has a kidney or urinary tract or pelvic or bacteria infection as all can be quite common and would cause pain.
also, when you make a thread asking for advice, you could be nicer to the people that are trying to help you, instead of being rude like that.
i have never been rude to you under the name macavoy or the name bud2005.
kickureface
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what about vagina pain after sex? mine cant insert a tampon because it hurts.
Sounds like it might be a yeast infection, or something. Several of my girlfriends have had these in the past, and it makes for a painful experience if you try to have sex for even less than a minute. Take her to the doctor!