Gf’s “boss”

[Murk]

Oh this girls good.

 

[Spaz]

Oh this girls good.

It's not that she's good.

It's because he empowers her to be so.

Dafvck is wrong with men nowadays?

 

[In2theGame]

Cut it now or else suffer the mental torment

Still feel very uneasy though. Tonight I sent her a message at 8 and almost 2 hours later no response. Says she’s active on fb messenger though. Same thing the other night. Sent a text at 8:30 and don’t hear anything back until 11 when I’m already asleep I get a “I miss you babe”

You see, Your mind is now tormented on what she's doing in secret, Who she may be talking to, why it's taking her so long to respond and as you said yourself "Still feel uneasy though". This is why I told you to cut it because you will be going through this unessesary sh!t if you keep this chick around as a girlfriend.

Just to add, if you do say something to her, be ready to put your steel backbone and balls on because she will convince you that "it's nothing like that!" And "I'm not attracted to him ugh". Women say all kinds of sh!t like this

She gets really upset that I would even think that about her, saying how she’s been cheated on and wouldn’t do anything like that. Makes me feel like an a$$ for even accusing her of doing anything sketchy

This was an easy predictable outcome if you said anything. Her response was classic. Of course she's going to say something like this. either way she's probably doing sh!t behind your back and that's why you feel "uneasy", It's a gut feeling something seems off.

You fell right in man.

 

[AttackFormation]

LOL

Hahaha, your reaction, how many times have you heard that and later found out they were cheating or planning to? (I've never been in any relationship myself so can't say)

 

[dk1990S111]

You see, Your mind is now tormented on what she's doing in secret, Who she may be talking to, why it's taking her so long to respond and as you said yourself "Still feel uneasy though". This is why I told you to cut it because you will be going through this unessesary sh!t if you keep this chick around as a girlfriend.




This was an easy predictable outcome if you said anything. Her response was classic. Of course she's going to say something like this. either way she's probably doing sh!t behind your back and that's why you feel "uneasy", It's a gut feeling something seems off.

You fell right in man.

Texts me this morning saying she hopes everything is ok. I ask why she says that, because of last night? And she says ya, that she texted me at 7 and again at 11 to say goodnight. Didn’t get either of the texts she was talking about. She says she didn’t get the text I sent at 8.

My gut is telling me that it could be she was fvcking this new boss, because she will usually pass out right after we finish fvcking too. Now she’s saying she sent texts so it seems like she tried to talk.

Just kinda venting here, been talking to my buddy and next time I see her just going to tell her I just can’t deal with not trusting her

 

[Billtx49]

Texts me this morning saying she hopes everything is ok. I ask why she says that, because of last night? And she says ya, that she texted me at 7 and again at 11 to say goodnight. Didn’t get either of the texts she was talking about. She says she didn’t get the text I sent at 8.

My gut is telling me that it could be she was fvcking this new boss, because she will usually pass out right after we finish fvcking too. Now she’s saying she sent texts so it seems like she tried to talk.

Just kinda venting here, been talking to my buddy and next time I see her just going to tell her I just can’t deal with not trusting her

Yes, lying and cheating create a need for a cover story…
That one was weak, but she probably thought you would believe it.

 

[Chi Town]

Yes, lying and cheating create a need for a cover story…
That one was weak, but she probably thought you would believe it.

She knows how weak minded he is

 

[AttackFormation]

She knows how weak minded he is

Lmfao,

 

[In2theGame]

Texts me this morning saying she hopes everything is ok. I ask why she says that, because of last night? And she says ya, that she texted me at 7 and again at 11 to say goodnight. Didn’t get either of the texts she was talking about. She says she didn’t get the text I sent at 8.

My gut is telling me that it could be she was fvcking this new boss, because she will usually pass out right after we finish fvcking too. Now she’s saying she sent texts so it seems like she tried to talk.

Just kinda venting here, been talking to my buddy and next time I see her just going to tell her I just can’t deal with not trusting her

She's completely full of sh!t and if I was in your shoes, I would tell her exactly that to her face. Women like this need to be put in their place. Maybe she wasnt fvcking him..........yet and just talking to him but I wouldn't be surprised if she did.

You have two options here:

•Get your stuff back and cut this chick off. Period.
•Don't say anything else and keep her as your sex toy. You engage with her when you or her wants to fvck. other than that, talking via phone/text/FB etc is very limited. You need to treat her like she's just a chick who sucks you off. In the meantime you meet more Women that keep your mind and c0ck occupied when she's not around.

Me personally, I would keep her and date multiple Women at the same time to keep my bullpen roster options open. However in your case, I'm not sure you can choose option number 2 because you seem too emotionally invested already. Your emotions are caught up in this one girl and if she fvcks this other guy or not.

 

[HankHill]

Dude...stop talking to her! About how you feel, what you think and all that...women NEVER change course from talking. The only thing they understand is action. In fact, the more you talk to her the weaker you come across and she subconsciously feels she's right in whatever it is that she's doing.

Just get your stuff, stop responding and leave her be.

 

[thelittleprince]

I was in a similar situation recently but not as invested as it sounds for you but what I did was first I didn't give myself a hard time. Kristen Neff Self Compassion for me is the first line of defence when I'm not feeling secure about something. It makes suffering or insecurity far, far easier to handle. Second thing in my case was to internalise the belief that women are only a condiment to my plate of food. (NLP, Neuro Linguistic Hypnotherapy (self hypnotising)) visualisation, meditation, exercise) Yes she can make it taste decidedly better but there are many condiments you can choose from. So abundance. Also I find whenever **** hits fan, sit down for as long as it takes and keep a gratitude diary. There will be a lot of things in your life you can be grateful for. And you can be grateful to yourself for having a positive outlook and working to better yourself. We can't ever control anyone's actions and we aren't entitled to.Develop this relationship with yourself and you will need her less and less. Maybe she has a friend you can ****. Good luck mate we have all been there at some time.