"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting your priorties right.

Messarger

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Hi all. I rarely post here because i'm fvking up in life. I'm not posting about how i manage to fvck up because this thread is about my priorties as a student. I'll post it if you guys want to know more. But after speaking to a fellow DJ which offered me great advice, i've decided to re build my life again.

I want to hit the gym 3 times a week, but i also dont not want to fall behind in my studies. I've got lessons outside school on Tues and Thrus, and i was thinking of going to the gym on Mon, Wed, and Sun. The rest of the days are use to study and re build my social life.

Is there a better way to do this? Advice much needed and appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
 

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Gym is only like 1.5 hours, it's pretty easy to find time for it.
 

aussiegoat55

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aussiegoat55 said:
I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
*whenever you're *done* with HW
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, gym is 1.5 hours, but the traveling time to the gym and back, plus unforseen circumstances like waiting for the equipment, it adds up to maybe a 2.5-3 hours thing.

My goal is to get an A in 5 of my 7 subjects.
 

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It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.
 

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cuzza said:
It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.

same here. Try not to use the gym as a social area, because it can really mess you up. I speak from experience!
 

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I'm on a program now that you can actually do at home and it only takes around 20 minutes to do... but the main key to the workout is eating a TON of the right foods. Find something that works for you, talk to a gym trainer or coach at your school or something
 
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