"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting your priorties right.

Messarger

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Hi all. I rarely post here because i'm fvking up in life. I'm not posting about how i manage to fvck up because this thread is about my priorties as a student. I'll post it if you guys want to know more. But after speaking to a fellow DJ which offered me great advice, i've decided to re build my life again.

I want to hit the gym 3 times a week, but i also dont not want to fall behind in my studies. I've got lessons outside school on Tues and Thrus, and i was thinking of going to the gym on Mon, Wed, and Sun. The rest of the days are use to study and re build my social life.

Is there a better way to do this? Advice much needed and appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aussiegoat55

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I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
 

Kwello

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Gym is only like 1.5 hours, it's pretty easy to find time for it.
 

aussiegoat55

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aussiegoat55 said:
I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
*whenever you're *done* with HW
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Messarger

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Yeah, gym is 1.5 hours, but the traveling time to the gym and back, plus unforseen circumstances like waiting for the equipment, it adds up to maybe a 2.5-3 hours thing.

My goal is to get an A in 5 of my 7 subjects.
 

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It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.
 

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cuzza said:
It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.

same here. Try not to use the gym as a social area, because it can really mess you up. I speak from experience!
 

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I'm on a program now that you can actually do at home and it only takes around 20 minutes to do... but the main key to the workout is eating a TON of the right foods. Find something that works for you, talk to a gym trainer or coach at your school or something
 
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