"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting your priorties right.

Messarger

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Hi all. I rarely post here because i'm fvking up in life. I'm not posting about how i manage to fvck up because this thread is about my priorties as a student. I'll post it if you guys want to know more. But after speaking to a fellow DJ which offered me great advice, i've decided to re build my life again.

I want to hit the gym 3 times a week, but i also dont not want to fall behind in my studies. I've got lessons outside school on Tues and Thrus, and i was thinking of going to the gym on Mon, Wed, and Sun. The rest of the days are use to study and re build my social life.

Is there a better way to do this? Advice much needed and appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aussiegoat55

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I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
 

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Gym is only like 1.5 hours, it's pretty easy to find time for it.
 

aussiegoat55

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aussiegoat55 said:
I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
*whenever you're *done* with HW
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Messarger

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Yeah, gym is 1.5 hours, but the traveling time to the gym and back, plus unforseen circumstances like waiting for the equipment, it adds up to maybe a 2.5-3 hours thing.

My goal is to get an A in 5 of my 7 subjects.
 

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It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.
 

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cuzza said:
It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.

same here. Try not to use the gym as a social area, because it can really mess you up. I speak from experience!
 

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I'm on a program now that you can actually do at home and it only takes around 20 minutes to do... but the main key to the workout is eating a TON of the right foods. Find something that works for you, talk to a gym trainer or coach at your school or something
 
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