"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting your priorties right.

Messarger

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Hi all. I rarely post here because i'm fvking up in life. I'm not posting about how i manage to fvck up because this thread is about my priorties as a student. I'll post it if you guys want to know more. But after speaking to a fellow DJ which offered me great advice, i've decided to re build my life again.

I want to hit the gym 3 times a week, but i also dont not want to fall behind in my studies. I've got lessons outside school on Tues and Thrus, and i was thinking of going to the gym on Mon, Wed, and Sun. The rest of the days are use to study and re build my social life.

Is there a better way to do this? Advice much needed and appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
 

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Gym is only like 1.5 hours, it's pretty easy to find time for it.
 

aussiegoat55

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aussiegoat55 said:
I mean you could live by a rigid schedule if you want or whenever you're down with HW and have some free time go workout.

Depending on what grade you are in HS and what your school goals are (college, 4.0GPA, etc) school should come first.
*whenever you're *done* with HW
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah, gym is 1.5 hours, but the traveling time to the gym and back, plus unforseen circumstances like waiting for the equipment, it adds up to maybe a 2.5-3 hours thing.

My goal is to get an A in 5 of my 7 subjects.
 

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It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.
 

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cuzza said:
It should NOT add up to a 3 hour thing. Get there, 45-1hr workout, get home. I do all travelling and workout in under an hour.

same here. Try not to use the gym as a social area, because it can really mess you up. I speak from experience!
 

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I'm on a program now that you can actually do at home and it only takes around 20 minutes to do... but the main key to the workout is eating a TON of the right foods. Find something that works for you, talk to a gym trainer or coach at your school or something
 
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