"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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getting with ex's friend

mrsoy

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anyone have any ideas on going about getting with an ex's friend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MidwestFreek

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in my book..any girl that isnt married or newhere close..is fair game...ok..ur ex wont like it...hmmmmmm....too bad shes not ur gf...even if she was..she shouldnt have any say in what goes on...go for it
 

mrsoy

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what im worried about is the friend being like "i cant do that to my friend" what could i do to convince her otherwise
 

Jerky Boi

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Well, it's not exactly impossible because I've done it before. But a lot of times your ex will try and way possible to break you guys up and more than likely, if you get into a fight, your gf will side with her friend. Are these girls "best friends" or just kinda distant friends?
 

MidwestFreek

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if she pulls that "i can do this to my friend" thing..which probably wont happen..then move on...find some1 else..or just be like "look...we broke up...things are over between (name) and me. If (name) gets all pissy about us hookin up...thats her problem...but if shes really ur friend she'll want u to be happy..." or play that game...that way if u two hook up..and the ex pulls those games...she'll think "hmm he was right..if she was my friend she'd want me to be happy" and then she'll be less likely to side with the ex in an arguement...ive seen it happen a couple times...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJoneday

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just don't get exclusive right away. then the guilt'll come off. That's how it worked for me ;)
 
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