getting with ex's friend

[mrsoy]

anyone have any ideas on going about getting with an ex's friend?

 

[MidwestFreek]

in my book..any girl that isnt married or newhere close..is fair game...ok..ur ex wont like it...hmmmmmm....too bad shes not ur gf...even if she was..she shouldnt have any say in what goes on...go for it

 

[mrsoy]

what im worried about is the friend being like "i cant do that to my friend" what could i do to convince her otherwise

 

[Jerky Boi]

Well, it's not exactly impossible because I've done it before. But a lot of times your ex will try and way possible to break you guys up and more than likely, if you get into a fight, your gf will side with her friend. Are these girls "best friends" or just kinda distant friends?

 

[MidwestFreek]

if she pulls that "i can do this to my friend" thing..which probably wont happen..then move on...find some1 else..or just be like "look...we broke up...things are over between (name) and me. If (name) gets all pissy about us hookin up...thats her problem...but if shes really ur friend she'll want u to be happy..." or play that game...that way if u two hook up..and the ex pulls those games...she'll think "hmm he was right..if she was my friend she'd want me to be happy" and then she'll be less likely to side with the ex in an arguement...ive seen it happen a couple times...

 

[DJoneday]

just don't get exclusive right away. then the guilt'll come off. That's how it worked for me