Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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anyone have any ideas on going about getting with an ex's friend?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MidwestFreek

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in my book..any girl that isnt married or newhere close..is fair game...ok..ur ex wont like it...hmmmmmm....too bad shes not ur gf...even if she was..she shouldnt have any say in what goes on...go for it
 
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what im worried about is the friend being like "i cant do that to my friend" what could i do to convince her otherwise
 
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Well, it's not exactly impossible because I've done it before. But a lot of times your ex will try and way possible to break you guys up and more than likely, if you get into a fight, your gf will side with her friend. Are these girls "best friends" or just kinda distant friends?
 
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if she pulls that "i can do this to my friend" thing..which probably wont happen..then move on...find some1 else..or just be like "look...we broke up...things are over between (name) and me. If (name) gets all pissy about us hookin up...thats her problem...but if shes really ur friend she'll want u to be happy..." or play that game...that way if u two hook up..and the ex pulls those games...she'll think "hmm he was right..if she was my friend she'd want me to be happy" and then she'll be less likely to side with the ex in an arguement...ive seen it happen a couple times...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJoneday

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just don't get exclusive right away. then the guilt'll come off. That's how it worked for me ;)
 
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