"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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getting with ex's friend

mrsoy

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anyone have any ideas on going about getting with an ex's friend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MidwestFreek

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in my book..any girl that isnt married or newhere close..is fair game...ok..ur ex wont like it...hmmmmmm....too bad shes not ur gf...even if she was..she shouldnt have any say in what goes on...go for it
 

mrsoy

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what im worried about is the friend being like "i cant do that to my friend" what could i do to convince her otherwise
 

Jerky Boi

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Well, it's not exactly impossible because I've done it before. But a lot of times your ex will try and way possible to break you guys up and more than likely, if you get into a fight, your gf will side with her friend. Are these girls "best friends" or just kinda distant friends?
 

MidwestFreek

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if she pulls that "i can do this to my friend" thing..which probably wont happen..then move on...find some1 else..or just be like "look...we broke up...things are over between (name) and me. If (name) gets all pissy about us hookin up...thats her problem...but if shes really ur friend she'll want u to be happy..." or play that game...that way if u two hook up..and the ex pulls those games...she'll think "hmm he was right..if she was my friend she'd want me to be happy" and then she'll be less likely to side with the ex in an arguement...ive seen it happen a couple times...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJoneday

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just don't get exclusive right away. then the guilt'll come off. That's how it worked for me ;)
 
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