"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting told off..

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Today, a girl who I've never talk to told me off. Let me elaborate on why this happened..

Near the end of May, I got with a girl, which you can draw your own conclusion to. Anyway, this girl wouldn't stop calling, instant messaging, etc. She said she had gotten a friend of hers to agree to a threesome, the only thing is, this girl is a sister of a friend of mine (another girl). So I decided that it wouldn't be right to mess around like that with a friendship, and declined. Besides, if I really needed some, I could get it within about a week.

So anyway, the two of them walk by me today while I'm conversating with my friends on our plans tonight. As she walks by, I hear her friend say "How could you f*ck him?! He's ugly!" So I turned around and said "Would you like to say that again, you got my attention." She got right in my face and started telling me off. I assume it was bad, but I wasn't listening. I was looking at her for signs of attraction that she couldn't control. Keep in mind it was pretty bright out today. As I stared into her eyes, her pupils were very large (sign of attraction) and she was maintaining eye contact for longer than I thought she would.

Some of you may notice when being told off by a female friend of your female friend, they will break eye contact and point to the friend. This girl in particular, did not.

As she walked away, I kept my eyes on her, and within about 5 seconds, she turned around and looked at me for a little while, walking into someone.

What I don't understand about this, is that afterwards, I couldn't stop thinking about it. I was so attracted to the fact that she had the guts to tell me off, a complete stranger, so well, even though she was obviously attracted to me. So now I'm really attracted to the sister of my friend, and I don't know what it was.

It could be that she was attracted to me, and since I could tell, I became attracted to her (naturally, humans like others that like them). It could have been that I find her power attractive. I'm not too sure.

Anyone else ever have this happen to them? I'm at a loss for words on how to proceed with this..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FlyGuy

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LOL, crazy dude

I think she was just pissed that you declined to have sex with her. You knocked her ego in the dirt, so she felt like she had to find something wrong with you in order to console her tattered pride. I dunno if you can salvage it now, I've never had experience turning a girl's anger around into attraction.
 

DJ_Dork

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yawwwnn an ice berg just melted in front of me
 

Knicknack

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major props for maintaining control and just analyzing her... that is hilarious.
 

Ebach

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Definitely a sign of attraction. I mean the pupils don't matter much since she's screaming at you and all that adrenaline will do that **** to you. I agree with you though. She is attracted to you and can't handle not having your **** up her *****. You should forget this friendship thing and let those girls ride on top of you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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