Music_czar
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 27, 2018
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Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?I Would you like me to post something on mental illness to get your mojo going ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is this the "win" u r looking for ?Are you gonna post your psychiatric report?
If you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...I’m coming to the conclusion that most women are mentally unstable. Most of my LTR’s are with women who have high interest right from the start but they turn out to be clingy, have low self esteem but worship me. All the other women are AW’s, bpd’s, or looking for the next branch to swing to. The only advice I can give you is to keep banging bishes, enjoy the company with the ones that worship you and always have a backup.
This!!!I’ve also noticed young women are getting much better at compartmentalizing and turning their feeling off for a guy very suddenly, much worse than it ever was before. Scary stuff. I don’t know what average or fat chicks are like, but the hot ones in their 20’s are crazier than ever I dont think it can get any worse.
Judging off this statement, things have seemingly have gotten worse the more the years pastIf you're in high school or college (I am), know that most women your age will be mentally unstable/petty, and sadly will be so well into their 20s...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A few of good women around though, key is recognising them.Just getting tired of dealing of women.
I'm 40, never married and no kids. Attractive, good career, own a house and car, no drug or health issues, but all I do is cycle through short term fling to short term fling when it comes to women. I have tight game, very sociable, and very good at seduction. I can usually sleep with a new prospect within the first or second date. Things usually escalate where we date for a month or two and then abruptly end.
I suppose part of the problem is, I'm running into head case after head case. Very attractive, but they're all messed up in one way or another. I wonder if i've passed the point where I can meet and settle down with a normal woman without baggage. Am I just being cynical? Most of the women I meet, everything goes great and they end up sabotaging things in the end in one way or another.
What should I do at this point? Take a break from dating or drop the idea of settling down which is ultimately what I want? I have a very high sex drive, so the idea of not dating doesn't sit well. I'm just tired of wasting my time and energy on doomed prospects.